For Men who are chronic “Nice-Guys”…
Discover why women get so sexually excited
by bad boys…. and how you too can have
the same Raw Sexual Power without
becoming an inconsiderate jerk!
Finally the missing pieces to the puzzle
From a Reformed Nice Guy
to be a Badboy in the Bedroom!
Are you tired of being “just friends” with women?
Feel like you have your life together but women only have sex with jerks?
Do women tell you their troubles, then run off to hook up with some guy on a Harley, a jock or some tattooed guitar player?
Ever been married and had your wife cheat on you with a bad boy then divorce you?
Maybe you’ve heard those bone chilling words “you’re a nice guy, but…”
If you answered yes to one or more of those questions, then this will be one of the most exciting messages you’ll ever read.
I was once a nice guy too. I had a beautiful wife who modeled lingerie and we had sex every night. I was on top of the world. Then one day it all came crashing down on me.
My wife left me for a badboy
I found out my wife had been cheating with a bad boy and next thing I know she had divorced me and taken half of everything I owned. I was crushed. It was the worst thing that ever happened to me. Once I recovered from the shock I set out to find out what happened.
I vowed it would never happen again
The divorce was the kick-in-the-pants I needed to find out what went wrong. As luck would have it I spotted the very same Badboy in a bar one night. I went up and asked him to tell me what he did to cause her to leave me after 8 years of marriage. Amazingly, he told me everything!
A Shocking Revelation
It made me sick to my stomach to hear all the details, but holy crap did I learn something. I got a glimpse into what raw sexual power is all about, and how women go crazy once they get a taste of this forbidden fruit.
I knew I was on to something, it was rare for a real bad boy to spill his guts. I also realized one more thing… this is important. I was…
NEVER Ever Ask for Sex!
Too nice for my own damn good
My masculinity had been submerged like the Titanic by social programming. I bought into one of the great modern lies about relationships.
I believed being a good provider and loving husband was all my wife needed. Thanks to Mr. Badboy that false belief exploded like a water balloon dropped from Empire State Building.
Like so many men, I had mistakenly
Confused NICE with BORING
I was proud of being a ‘nice-guy’. I was raised by two very loving parents to be nice. The problem is I was being nice all the time. Nice at dinner is a good thing. Nice when you are the bedroom is a bad thing, because it’s boring. Yes, even sex can get boring if it’s always the same.
Imagine eating vanilla ice cream every day… how long would it take you to get bored and want something else? For a woman, that’s what nice guy sex is like. It might taste good at first, but soon she wonders “is this all?”
So the solution was crystal clear, I needed to overcome the Nice-Guy-Itis that made me a plain vanilla lover. How did I do that? Read on…
Good things about bad boys
I became a bad boy. That’s right, me a divorced father with 2 young kids and full-time engineering geek, became a bad boy.
It wasn’t easy at first. I had to create a series of special exercises to cure my nice-guy syndrome, but once I did… an amazing thing happened…. IT WORKED!
I was a total jerk to women and they wanted sex. And the sex was freaking HOT! But there was just one problem…
Bad things about bad boys
Being a mean, conceited jerk around women sucked. It made me sick to my stomach, because at my core I’m a nice guy. I adore women and have always treated them with the utmost respect.
However, I now had a huge dilemma… I was having the best sex of my life! The women were getting kinky in ways I never imagined even in my wildest fantasies. No way did I want to give that up! But I couldn’t continue be a rude jerk to women either.
I didn’t know what to do, until one day I stumbled on the answer by accident.
The magic formula
If you are like most modern guys (and me), you were raised to be “nice”. Yet now you find yourself asking: “If I’m so nice, why isn’t my sex life better?” The secret is in this simple formula…
Be a Good Guy in the living room
and a Bad Boy in the bedroom
When you are outside the bedroom, be a good man. Show kindness, respect and be trustworthy. Outside the bedroom… be nice.
In the bedroom be the highly sexual bad boy women find so exciting. Inside the bedroom take charge, be dominant and be naughty. In other words… be bad (but in a good way)
Seems almost too simple doesn’t it? The problem is, most guys don’t have a clue on how to be the bad boy. (Actually, that’s not quite correct, I’ll tell you why in a minute)
But Curing Nice Guy isn’t just about men, because fact is…
Women are frustrated!
Most women can’t find what they want. They either end up with a nice guy and boring lame sex, or they end up having great sex with a bad boy who ends up treating her like a used condom.
When you hear a woman say a Good Man is HARD to find, this is what they mean. She wants a man who treats her with respect AND can ring her bell in the bedroom.
Men are frustrated!
Your whole life you’ve been doing what you were taught and have been nice… all the time, everywhere and to everybody.
But, you don’t get the results with women you want, and bluntly the lets-just-be-friends thing sucks.
Men aren’t satisfied, women aren’t satisfied. Modern society has let us down by creating so many nice guys. When the reality is…
Women Want More Sex!
And what they really desire is a man who makes his woman feel appreciated, is sexually exciting and can give her wild screaming orgasms. Women fantasize about a man like this constantly. It’s why they read 400 page romance novels.
Women write me all the time and tell me how hard it is to find a Masterful Lover, so the way I see it, Cure Nice Guy cuts two ways. Both men and women will have better sex and better relationships.
If you don’t lead…
she can’t dance
Have you ever taken a Salsa dancing class? The first thing they teach you is Men Lead, women follow. If you don’t lead, she can’t dance because she doesn’t know where to go or what to do.
Just like in dancing, women want this from their man in the bedroom. In fact, they crave it, because it allows them to be the naturally sexually submissive creature she was born to be.
It doesn’t matter if she’s an executive women who commands men around all day or a librarian, the moment she goes into the bedroom she wants to surrender completely to her man.
With her ‘Badboy’ in the bedroom,
she feels safe enough to Play ‘Doctor’
Here’s another little secret I learned from badboys…
The More BADBOY you are,
the more she will want sex
I warn my coaching clients about this… the more you become the dominant sexual man in the bedroom, the better the sex gets because she trusts you and will do things she’s never done with any other man. Sex will be so exciting she will literally become addicted… and she will become addicted to you!
The better the sex is — the more women crave it. Women are HIGHLY sexual creatures, but only when they are with a man who knows how to bring out her wildly sexual side.
So, maybe you are wondering… how do I become a bad boy in the bedroom?
Stop being the elephant on a rope
Ever see an elephant at the circus? This massive beast is held in place by a thin rope and a peg in the ground. Fact is, the elephant can break the rope with a flick of it’s leg, but won’t even try because it BELIEVES it can’t break the rope! It’s been conditioned from when it was very young that the rope is too strong to break.
Nice guys are a lot like the elephant. They all have ‘reasons’ why they can’t be a sexually exciting bad boy in the bedroom. After working with one-on-one clients for many years I’ve heard all the excuses, and not one of them is true.
Elephants have a rope, you have limiting beliefs. Thoughts in your head that are not true, but you act as if they are real.
So step one is for you to become aware of the ‘rope’ holding you back. The good news is…
You aren’t Broken
Most so called self help is designed to convince the person they are fundamentally “broken” and need to be ‘fixed’. Most nice guys ain’t broken. You just have your Nice Guy Switch stuck in the ON propitiation. I know what it’s like, I once had the same problem.
Do you get uncomfortable at the thought of bending a woman over a couch, entering her from behind, smacking her ass and talking dirty to her? This is your Nice Guy programming, and it keeps you from doing what women desperately want from their man.
Inside you is a sexual creature who would love to have crazy monkey sex. Your nice guy belief system tells you it’s wrong, or it would offend a ‘nice girl’. Fact is, in the context of heightened sexual arousal nice girls love to get ‘ravished’ and ‘taken’ by a dominant man.
And I know it’s a problem that can be solved by taking small steps. You don’t have to change, you just need to learn how to tap into things you already have. All men have an inner bad boy. You just need to learn to let your bad boy out to play when the time is right.
99% of ALL Women Want to be Submissive to their Man
We are all born
sexual creatures, but…
there is no such thing
as a born bad boy
My point… you can learn how. And I’ve got a way to drastically reduce the time it takes to do this.
Here’s how it works:
- Get past fears you will “offend” women by being sexually dominant and talking dirty
We men are logical beings. We need to see proof. As John Keynes once said “When the facts change, I change my mind. What do you do, sir?”
I’ll show you FACTS. Real world examples of the power of bad boys, women who crave really hot sex, and stories from men who were once Nice Guys just like you and me.
- Undo all the crappy social programming
Time to break the elephant’s rope. The thing holding you back the most is what you believe to be true about being nice, women, and sex.
In the same way a fish isn’t aware of the water it lives in, you aren’t aware (yet) of the toxic thoughts in your head. Discover what is holding you back by doing the exercises I developed for myself and I use with my one-on-one coaching clients.
- What To Do & Say
I’ve created simple step-by-step guides to help you discover
- how to transition from the good guy gentlemen to the sexy masculine bad boy and do it so it seems like “it just happened!”
- how & when to start talking ‘naughty’ and do it so smoothly she won’t even notice
- what to do if it’s your first date or if you’ve been together for over 20 years
You also discover…
- How to UNCORK your natural sexual desires and sexual behaviors
- Why your brain is forcing you to NOT talk dirty to women and what you can do stop it.
- How to stop making self-sabotaging nice-guy mistakes
- Revolutionary practices for the chronically nice guy
- How to be a good guy and still be sexually exciting
- Nice guy traps to avoid
- Specific Examples of how to talk ‘dirty’ (without using filthy words)
- How you can be a bedroom badboy, and still treat women with respect
- The common challenges modern men have with being a badboy in the bedroom (and how to solve them)
- How to smoothly escalate sexually into the bedroom (even if you have no previous experience)
- A sneaky way to get her to say naughty things to YOU! (You’ll be amazed at what she will say once you get her started)
- How you can introduce new things (like dirty talk) even if you’ve been married over 20 years.
- Subconscious ways you hold yourself back (and the tools to eliminate them)
- How to respond if she says “What has gotten into you?” or “Why are you acting different?” (nice guys always screw this up)
- Effortless ways to transition from good guy to bad boy and back. (so natural she won’t notice)
- How to overcome feelings of shame or guilt about your sexual desires
- How to lead in the bedroom so it feels natural (not forced)
- Simple sexy things to say in the bedroom, even if your mind goes blank.
with a Badboy
- How to be masculine in the bedroom even if you are normally a shy guy outside.
- Lethally effective ways to increase her arousal only bad boys know
- How to avoid feeling embarrassed when using dirty talk
- How to put ‘fire’ back into your marriage
Imagine going from feeling guilty, afraid or ashamed about your sexual desires with women to feeling good about being masculine and taking control in the bedroom.
Imagine never worrying about your woman cheating again. (she’ll be so happy with you it won’t cross her mind)
Imagine being with a woman who can’t wait to see you again because she wants more wild, kinky rip-up-the-sheets sex with YOU.
That’s what Cure Nice Guy is about.
Do you believe your desires are wrong or bad?
Come on, face it, you have “desires” regarding your woman. You know it. I know it. (Hey, we’re men, we have “desires”.)
But do you believe your desires are wrong or bad? Be honest. Because if you do, then you might have “nige-guy-itis”.
A glaring sign of nice-guy-itis is the belief that a desire is “wrong” or “bad”. And it doesn’t matter what the desire is, it’s the belief that the desire is wrong.
And just because you think it’s wrong doesn’t mean it goes away. Nobody has eliminated a desire, no matter what they think of it. The desire will still try to be met.
But the real test if you have nice-guy-itis is the following…
Do you try to get your desire met without admitting it?
Do you try to disguise your desire? Try to hide it? Keep it a “secret”?
Do you expect your woman to meet your desire, but you never actually state your desire?
Do you make compromises and give up things so that your woman will eventually meet your desire?
Do you ever make a “covert contract”? That means you give your woman flowers expecting her to give you ______. (fill in the blank – which has nothing to do with flowers)
If you have done any of the above, then you definitely have nice-guy-itis.
And that would mean you have felt frustration. And you probably felt anger. Well now you can take constructive steps forward to cure your nice-guy-itis. It’s the first thing that has to happen before progress can be made.
My top Masterful Lover coach has a 100% success rate of curing nice-guy-itis among our coaching clients. And my top Masterful Lover coach happens to be a woman. Her name is Lena Voyles.
The real reason you fear women…
If you’re a “nice-guy” then you fear women, and here’s why…
Nice-guys have the belief that desire is wrong. If you believe desire is wrong, you can’t express that desire. When you want something, and you can’t express that desire, then you become dependent on the woman to somehow meet that desire for you.
So you have put all the power in the woman to meet your need, and she doesn’t even know it. So all of that power is completely outside yourself. You become helpless to her to meet your need. And she doesn’t even know your need because you can’t express your need.
As a result, you feel completely powerless, and you feel that women are really powerful.
And women aren’t helping you with that power (because they don’t even know they have it) so you have the very uncomfortable feeling of needing something from somebody who’s not giving it to you.
When you feel powerless, and you believe women have all the power, you become fearful of the perceived power of women.
That’s why you fear women.
Nice-guys think women have all the power because nice-guys give all the power to women because nice-guys aren’t able to express their desires because nice-guys believe desire is wrong.
Now here’s where nice-guys really crash and burn… When nice-guys get fed up and can’t take it anymore they over-compensate by being “not-nice” (bad). They had her on a pedestal so they knock her off that pedestal by being rude and obnoxious, and even controlling or bullying.
But that’s still pushing against the perceived power that women have, and that simply further perpetuates the mindset that women have all the power.
What this program is not
This is not a guide to male selfishness
It’s not about being controlling, domineering or manipulative
It does not make you a mean inconsiderate jerk or rude asshole
It’s not about using profanities or being degrading to women
It’s not for men in denial about being ‘nice’, you need an open mind.
Most important… this isn’t a magic pill that works overnight… you need to put some energy into getting what you want.
Who this is for
This course is for you if:
- You often seem to end up a woman’s new best friend when you would rather be her lover
- You have a difficult time showing raw sexual interest in a woman
- Deep down, you feel showing sexual or even romantic interest in a woman is “using” her
- You have trouble believing women want sex… and maybe want it MORE than you
- You respect women and are ready to take FULL responsibility for your life.
Here’s what you get with Cure Nice Guy.
130 Page Cure Nice Guy Manual – Detailing the psychology of why nice guys think the way they do, the myths & misconceptions about ‘niceness’ and the hard truth about sexuality found in reality. You’ll find out what women want, why being nice isn’t so nice and why women cheat. Plus how to be comfortable with your sexuality and how to be personally & sensually powerful with women.
Includes Guest Chapters from Women – Based on feedback from men these unique contributions were arranged. Here’s your chance to find out the woman’s point of view on Nice Guys, Bad Boys and rip-up-the-sheets sex.
Includes 11 Real World Case Studies – Examples of real life bad boys, what they do right and what they do terribly wrong, plus success stories from former nice guys on how they made the change and how amazing their relationships with women are now.
Includes 6 Self Correcting Exercises – The same exercises I used on myself and use with my one-on-one coaching clients. These are specifically designed to help you get over your nice-guy-itis.
2-Hour Interview with Lena Voyles – You’ll hear Lena reveal how to identify your nice-guy-itis and how to fix it forever! Lena has a 100% success rate of curing our coaching clients of nice-guy-itis.
2-Hour Cure Nice Guy Teleseminar – You’ll hear me cover simple yet effective examples of what to say, what to do and complete step-by-step guide on how to go from good guy at dinner to bad boy in the bedroom. Plus examples of wrong things to say at the wrong times, Nice Guy traps to avoid and how to introduce new things into any relationship. The final hour you’ll hear me work with guys on their Nice-Guy challenges.
Plus If You Order Now,
You’ll Get These Bonuses
Bonus #1 – Carlos Xuma Interview
“How To be an alpha man
in your Every Day life”
Carlos Xuma is an expert in Masculinity and what he calls the Alpha Lifestyle.
He’s appeared on ABC & CBS television, Maxim Radio, Sex with Emily, World Talk Radio and Playboy Magazine
Carlos & I are good friends and we share a very similar philosophy about women and sexuality.
Based on feedback I received, men want to know more about how to communicate “badboy” outside the bedroom. So I asked Carlos to share his ideas on how to be an Alpha Man in your every day life.
Bonus #2 – Meriana Dinkova Interview
“Why Women Want their man
to See Her Sexuality”
Meriana Dinkova coaches men and women on developing and strengthening their erotic presence and on cultivating their own unique sexual expression. Those skills are as important in dating, as they are in keeping long term relationships hot and exciting.
Meriana is a Psychotherapist and a Relationship Coach based in San Francisco, and in the last seven years she has helped numerous men to create the relationships they want and helped couples to keep the fires going after many years of being together.